Shocking but hardly surprising when you actually look at consequences and link up the challenges

Behaviours cause responses and unless you understand what triggers them then cycles are set up and different to break down or adapt

But as with BAND OF BROTHERS -changing the world one man at a time

Often there are no role models or support systems that understand or can identify with what is taking place.

SO how then to tackle it?

Not with punitive methods and exacerbating the vicious life cycle but breaking the chain and humanising the approach. Recognition and reward for acceptable humane behaviours and support.

Less of the criminalising and dehumanising trans-formative work with the professionals as there but for the grace of God go many of us or some thta we know.

Self belief is tough and even Michelle Obama talked of feeling ‘impostor syndrome”